We often face the task of 'creepy', and that is not less often do we actually put it off. On the other hand we are busy checking incoming email, but we've only checked 5 minutes ago, with the hope there are important emails that require our immediate attention. It is the contrast. There are tasks that require immediate treatment while we waited another task that does not necessarily exist.
If you've never felt it, maybe you know someone who behaves like this.
This actually is a common problem that we often face in their daily work. We try to avoid difficult tasks because we are afraid to face / through it.
The question that often haunts are:
1. What if I gave up in the middle of the road?
2. What if I cannot do it alone?
3. What if I even look silly in these tasks?
4. How ... How ...... how and how
the questions that this negative motivation can kill you instantly even people who are strong ones, especially if the questions are long embedded within these people.
Below is a concept that you can use if you are facing a difficult task:
you should do
this is the same as when you have to wash the dishes because the maid to return home. The more you postpone it, the more dishes to be cleaned and the more you become lazy to make it start to begin immediately.
Trust law of momentum ... ... wow whether the law of momentum?
To make it easier I'll explain with an example, when you push a car. Originally must be very heavy once pushed a car that is in the rest position. But once the car is moving, you will get a mild boost and over time you can push it very quickly.
I most often feel this momentum when the law will write an article. Well, it seems every time you write a very lazy to get started. But when I started writing, it cannot be stopped, until sometimes forget that I've typed for 2-3 hours.
Once you start, you also then be able to identify your strengths and weaknesses.
Breaking the task into several smaller tasks will seem easier to do.
Separate the parts that are difficult from the easy parts.
Each task has always been the hard part and the easy part. When you can separate them into 2 parts, you can perform these tasks in accordance with your mood. Let's just say, you work with energy 1000% during the morning, then choose the parts that are difficult for you to do in the morning. If your energy starts to diminish in the afternoon, start doing the easy parts.
Enjoy the challenges faced.
Difficult tasks that are generally avoided because of pain or mental distress that may arise. You are so worried about what if you later frustrated, angry or sad. On the bright side, knowing these feelings is a good first step in building the strength of your emotions.
My friend once told me, before having children, patience is very minimal. But after having 2 children, he has the patience like a hermit. I am amazed with the level of patience when he asked his son to stop crying softly while she was talking on the phone.
You can use these difficult tasks to train you to be more patient and more relaxed. Make every arena of self-development tasks at hand.
Imagine how that task will help shape your future.
Yes, difficult tasks that will shape your character so you can be someone you want in the future.
So cheer up if you get a difficult task. Without a difficult task, you will never have the opportunity to spend your abilities fully and soon you'll be a mediocre.
Find someone who can help you.
Maybe you are traumatized by the difficult tasks before you've ever faced. You feel that you seem unable to perform the task itself. That's why finding someone who can help you is very important to your emotional health.
Find someone who has the power / advantages that are different from you, so you can co-exist with your partner is.
Ask yourself, "Am I the right person for the task?"
There are some tasks that do not match your capabilities. You cannot be all-round person for any purpose. If today you become an employee and you are often given the task / project that you do not like it, you should immediately make changes. Discuss with your supervisor, if not possible you get a job you like, consider looking for another job. Remember this phrase: "Do What You Love. Love what you do ", so you can be successful in your career.
Discuss your thoughts with others.
One of the advantages you do the task difficult is the knowledge that you will receive. Try to discuss this knowledge with others, whether through blogs, forums, phone or face to face directly. You'll love the reaction from your listeners.....
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